K Frei
Elite Cafe Member
O.K. I'm about to get up on a soap box; so bear with me if you will, or ignore the remainder of this post.
I have been biting my tongue for long enough.
there are many here who need to take a lesson or two in diplomacy, from those who we respect the most on This Forum! I have been reading with interest most new posts for the last week or so. Why do so many of us have to be so blunt?
I'll be the first to admit that some of my work has been PAINFUL to even look at, and that is why I've joined this forum.... to help me to improve! and I believe that is the main purpose of 95% of the engravers on here; the other 5% are the masters who we all respect.
take a few min to think of your worst post and then think of the way, Sam,Lee,Roger; and many others who i cannot remember right now (please forgive me for that) respond; they are always there to build up, not tear down.
There Is No Such Thing As Constructive Criticism! The two are opposite and will always be that way, and if you really look at the way the phrase is formed you truly are building up only to then tear down. there is a phrase some will call scripture, others only good advise but it says: "Reproving betimes with sharpness.... and then showing forth an Increase of love toward him [her] whom thou hast reproved, lest he esteem thee to be his enemy" (d&c 121;43)
My point is simply to ask people to be kinder. Please? I don't want to go into specific examples lest I be guilty of my own complaint, but know none of them have been my own posts, I just feel for some of the people on here.
If you have made it this far thanks. K Frei
I have been biting my tongue for long enough.
there are many here who need to take a lesson or two in diplomacy, from those who we respect the most on This Forum! I have been reading with interest most new posts for the last week or so. Why do so many of us have to be so blunt?
I'll be the first to admit that some of my work has been PAINFUL to even look at, and that is why I've joined this forum.... to help me to improve! and I believe that is the main purpose of 95% of the engravers on here; the other 5% are the masters who we all respect.
take a few min to think of your worst post and then think of the way, Sam,Lee,Roger; and many others who i cannot remember right now (please forgive me for that) respond; they are always there to build up, not tear down.
There Is No Such Thing As Constructive Criticism! The two are opposite and will always be that way, and if you really look at the way the phrase is formed you truly are building up only to then tear down. there is a phrase some will call scripture, others only good advise but it says: "Reproving betimes with sharpness.... and then showing forth an Increase of love toward him [her] whom thou hast reproved, lest he esteem thee to be his enemy" (d&c 121;43)
My point is simply to ask people to be kinder. Please? I don't want to go into specific examples lest I be guilty of my own complaint, but know none of them have been my own posts, I just feel for some of the people on here.
If you have made it this far thanks. K Frei